I feel like I’ve gotten a lot of emails lately from readers who express a fear of dating after divorce. Having experienced it myself, I can say firsthand that I don't blame them! Dating after divorce is terrifying for anyone. Fear of dating, espe...
Author: Jackie Pilossoph
What’s Up with the Negative Self-Talk During Divorce? Just Stop.
Ever talk to yourself? Of course you do. "Why am I being so stupid?" "Why did I say that to her?" "I hope I didn't say anything dumb." "This dress used to be fit so much better." "I'm old." "I screwed up again." Sound familiar? I bet most people enga...
How to Date After Divorce at 40: 11 Tips
As someone who dated from the time I was 16 until I got married at 35, and then dated again at 41 until I was 49, I have a lot to say on the subject of dating, both before and after divorce. In many ways, dating as a teenager isn't much different tha...
My Job Description for “Mom.” Happy Mother’s Day!
I’ve had several different careers over the course of my professional life. Most of the work has been challenging and enjoyable, some jobs were easy and fun, a couple paid well but were unfulfilling, a couple paid horrible but were fun, and one job...
8 Places to Meet Single People in the Suburbs And None are Bars!
Almost every divorced man or woman I know has made a comment at one time or another about how difficult it is to meet single people in the suburbs. After all, it's easy to picture suburbia as a multitude of residential neighborhoods with tree lined s...