Tips and advice for men and women who have recently split up from a spouse and are now getting divorced.
There are almost always mistakes made, in either or both, the drafting and/or the execution of the separation agreement when it comes to complying with mortgage guidelines. This can impact your the mortgage qualification process. I would step out on a limb and say that this happens in well over half of the divorces finalized. … Read more
Divorce is one of the most difficult times in a person’s life. I know finding things to be thankful for is probably the last thing you feel like doing but take it from me: Practicing gratitude is one of the most effective coping strategies you can develop– it’s free, takes little time, and can make … Read more
Life is about choices. We’ve all heard that phrase. Do you ever look back and reflect on the tiny choices that ended up being life altering? I did. Nineteen sixty-nine – 2024, this is a math equation that represents 55 years of my life. I am sitting in front of a fire on a … Read more
There are a few different instances that happened during the time I was newly separated that caused me to classify myself as temporarily psychotic, one of those being when I figured out my ex was dating my friend. I have since come to realize that “My ex is dating my friend” is not so uncommon. … Read more
You don’t have to tell me. I know how much you love and care about your dog. Divorce is beyond difficult, and when you add in pet custody, it can get a lot more complicated, painful and emotional. That said, have conversations about pet custody are a must. They are so important because the outcome … Read more
In times of personal crisis, legal measures like temporary restraining orders in divorce (TROs) can provide much-needed protection and relief. If you’re in San Diego and facing a situation where you believe your safety or the safety of your loved ones is at risk, it’s crucial to understand what a temporary restraining order in divorce … Read more
Navigating the complexities of custody and alcohol-related cases in the wake of a divorce can be challenging, especially since child safety is aways a top priority. An alcohol monitoring system can play a crucial role in these scenarios, providing an essential tool to safeguard and improve the well-being of children, as well as empowering both … Read more
Is it really already time for Valentine’s Day? This holiday has never really been my thing, but every year as the store aisles transition from Christmas decorations to red hearts and stuffed animals (so cliche!), I do feel a twinge of nostalgia. So after my divorce, I chose a shift in perspective that I carry through … Read more
“I hate him so much!” “This is so unfair.” “I’m going to go broke by the time this divorce is over!” “Why is God doing this to me?” “I hate my life.” “Who’s going to want me now that I’m 45 and single again?” “He already has a girlfriend!” “My kids are going to grow … Read more
Feeling abandoned in a relationship is extremely taxing emotionally. It can cause a person to feel insecure, angry, and sad, and can take a toll on self-esteem. But what happens when the abandonment translates into finances? In other words, your spouse or soon-to-be ex leaves you with money problems, along with stress and fear about … Read more
Ask any newly separated man or woman if he or she thinks finding happiness after divorce is possible, and the answer you get will involve a grim outlook. “Who knows?” they will might say with their head down, their eyes possibly filling with tears. “I haven’t thought that far ahead. I’m just thinking about how … Read more
Visitation schedules are unique in every family. Some parents have visitation every other weekend, while others have a mid-week visitation on top of weekends. In other situations, visits may be much less frequent for various reasons, such as: when one of the parents is under supervised visitation, or if parents live in different states, or … Read more
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