Tips and advice for men and women who have recently split up from a spouse and are now getting divorced.
During divorce, it’s pretty easy to let your thoughts swirl and become stressed. Those questions that go through your mind at 2 a.m. as you lie in bed, unable to sleep. What is going to happen to my children? Will I have a place to live tomorrow…next week…next month? Will I have any friends after … Read more
I’d like to think I’m a pretty positive person. After all, I’m not sure I could be running Divorced Girl Smiling otherwise. Positivity is the essence of the Divorced Girl Smiling brand. So when a friend of mine recently said: “My partner’s negativity is draining me,” I truly felt for her. She went on to … Read more
Divorce brings significant life changes, and one of the biggest questions many people ask is: Should I rent or buy a house after divorce? Each option has its benefits and drawbacks, and the right choice on whether to rent or buy depends on personal circumstances, finances, and long-term goals. Here’s a breakdown of the pros … Read more
Divorce is undeniably one of life’s most challenging transitions, and men often experience it in ways that may not always be visible. When it comes to men and divorce, we are wired differently than women, usually uniquely expressing pride, strength, and independence. These traits can sometimes make it harder for men to seek help or … Read more
Divorced Girl Smiling received the following comment from a divorced woman seeking divorce advice. It is followed by my advice, which might sound mean and harsh, but it’s not meant that way at all. I give the advice with love. I would love to hear why you think that when my now ex wanted a … Read more
I want to address a wonderful tool for conflict reduction in co-parenting. It’s for those struggling with co-parenting communication, those who feel like your ex isn’t listening, and those who fear your children are caught in the crossfire. As a divorce coach, I hear harrowing stories of conflict between co-parents. And, I know that protecting … Read more
Is divorce a sin? This is the question that popped into my head after listening to an episode of Megyn Kelly’s podcast yesterday. So, I was driving my mom’s car and my phone automatically synced to her Bluetooth (I must have synced it in the past). I have no idea why, but an old episode … Read more
I find that when people get divorced, oftentimes, they spend a significant time thinking about what went wrong, diagnosing the issues and their ex’s behavior, and replaying the demise of the marriage over and over and over again. Why is he the way he is? He’s a narcissist! Why did he do this or that? He’s so selfish! How … Read more
Divorce can be one of the most stressful and emotional experiences in a person’s life. In Illinois, there are multiple ways to approach the legal process of ending a marriage, and two of the most common methods are “mediation” and “litigation”. Let’s weigh the two: mediation vs litigation. Both have distinct characteristics and can have … Read more
Ever have one of those days when everything in your divorce seems really unfair? Let’s talk about an unfair divorce. I’ll start with an example. I talked to a woman recently who has a full time job and is struggling to pay her bills. Her ex has not paid child support (which was court … Read more
Buying a house for the first time after divorce? It’s scary! It’s stressful! It’s exciting! I understand all of those emotions.Whether you’re stepping into the real estate market for the first time or re-entering it as a newly divorced individual, finding the right buyer’s agent is crucial. What exactly is a a buyer’s agent? A … Read more
We all know how difficult the divorce process is. In addition to feelings of loss and sadness, the legal process of divorce can be overwhelming and burdensome. But when your spouse is hiding money, orif you suspect it, it takes things to another level. It’s bad enough that you have to walk away from this … Read more
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