Tips and advice for men and women who have recently split up from a spouse and are now getting divorced.
“Am I entitled to spousal support?” It’s a question we get asked so often by newly separated people. Also known as alimony and spousal maintenance, (which is the term generally used in Texas courts), spousal support is money paid by one spouse to the other, usually on a monthly basis, after separation or divorce. Spousal … Read more
“I’m such a good person. Why do bad things happen to me?” asked my friend. Even though we were on the phone, I could feel the tears welling in her eyes. She went on, “Don’t answer the question right now, just think about it.” So, I decided to answer her question in this article, and … Read more
There’s no question that all breakups are painful, and awful and difficult. But after the initial devastation, and feelings that can include anger, sadness, and grieving, you can hopefully move on. Sadly, though, sometimes people just can’t. They get stuck in anger, regret, and let’s face it-the past. They want to get over it, but … Read more
Divorce is a journey that most people face with the craving of knowledge and information. What we want to know could be about the divorce process, co-parenting, divorce laws, financial issues, dating after divorce, keeping the house, and more. The desire for information often leads people to Google searches. But what are the google trends … Read more
A harmonious relationship is characterized by friendliness and peaceful interactions. That might seem ironic if you are aiming for a harmonious relationship with your ex. But a harmonious relationship also includes shared goals and mutual respect, and that is certainly something to which every divorced couple should aspire. Navigating separation or divorce is challenging, and … Read more
An email I received from a divorced woman who is waiting for an apology that in my opinion will never come. I am struggling with this today. I have apologized and OWNED my part in the destruction of our marriage. But I realized something … I am still waiting for an apology from him for … Read more
Divorce is never easy. It’s a time filled with so many emotions—grief, stress, uncertainty. And for parents with college-bound children, it can feel like yet another overwhelming layer on top of an already difficult process. While you’re navigating the negotiations of child support, alimony, and dividing assets, one aspect that can sometimes slip through the … Read more
Life after divorce for a woman might seem really scary. The lifestyle changes of divorce can feel brutal. Financial adjustments, living alone, dating… some of these can actually feel like a nightmare. But despite that change is really scary, there is a lot of good that comes with change. Most people don’t see it that … Read more
What is a personal mission statement? It’s a declaration that describes your core values and your future goals. So, what better thing to do than to create a personal mission statement during your divorce? A divorce mission statement can help you stay focused and accountable during divorce. It’s so easy to lose sight of our … Read more
Like any fifty-something woman, any kind of change or doing something I’ve never done before induces anxiety and fear. In other words, change and fear go hand-in-hand for so many people. It’s uncomfortable to do something different. So, when my high school girlfriends and I decided to go to Naples for a long weekend, I … Read more
Divorce is a wild rollercoaster ride of emotions with major life-changing decisions that need to be made during a period of tremendous stress. One of the biggest decisions has to do with homeownership after divorce. Will you stay in your home? Will you sell it? Will you buy a new home? Will you rent? As … Read more
What is self-compassion? Let’s start with “what is sense of self?” In our complex and dynamic world, external factors exist that we have little to no control over. This creates internalized emotions that we often misread, misinterpret, and misunderstand. We spend time trying to eat healthier, sleep better, achieve balance, be mindful, and access our tools, … Read more
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