Tips and advice for men and women who have recently split up from a spouse and are now getting divorced.
I remember my first Thanksgiving after divorce 15 years ago. What a mess I was, visiting my family with my two toddlers, feeling sad, scared, embarrassed, angry and so many more emotions. I had gotten separated in August, so everything was still new, feelings were raw, and I was feeling anxiety about the actual divorce … Read more
Divorce and the holidays can get complicated and challenging for many reasons. Feelings of anger, resentment, and hurt can often run high on the emotions list for divorced and divorcing parents. Add in the pressure they may feel to make sure the kids have a positive experience, and it can be a recipe for parental … Read more
What is a Certified Divorce Lending Professional? The job of a Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP) is to strategize with those going through a divorce so that they can qualify for a home loan whether remaining in the marital home or buying a new home. CDLPs do not simply help homeowners structure their home loans; … Read more
There’s nothing easy about divorce, especially when children are involved. Even when couples choose mediation or restorative divorce to maintain healthy relationships, it can be challenging when one parent moves on to a new partner. I hear from so many of my clients, “My ex has a new girlfriend,” and it sparks so many emotions. … Read more
Below is an e-mail I received from a woman who writes: “My ex is angry and bitter.” Jackie, I am going on 2 years since my ex-husband and I have been separated. My ex went through a process of seeming okay with it, then briefly seemed upset and then he got MAD and has stayed … Read more
It is so often implied in our culture that it may be too late to divorce, and that any long-term relationship is worth keeping even if it is no longer successful. But that norm is starting to shift as men and women are asking the question: “Should I continue to make this work?” You may … Read more
Looking for a prayer for divorce? There is a well-known prayer I think you will find comforting and inspiring, and I think it can be useful for divorce. Let me explain… People going through a divorce are stressed. Very stressed. Every day there’s a new problem, a different issue, something unexpected that pops up–an attorney … Read more
There are many emotions associated with divorce, some of which include insecurity, a lack of self-confidence, and feeling lost—like you just don’t know who you are and who you want to be moving forward. These feelings lead many people to consider facial procedures and plastic surgery after divorce. Why? A few reasons. First, sometimes … Read more
When going through a divorce, thinking about the legal process can seem overwhelming, confusing, and scary. Frankly, rightfully so. The divorce process is very complex, and each case is unique in so many aspects. Knowing what to expect can take away a lot of anxiety and fear, so I’d like to explain the 5 steps … Read more
Divorce is devastating. It’s heartbreaking, it’s gut-wrenchingly sad, and it can be really, really depressing. When people think of what divorce does to a woman (or a man), I bet they think of all the potential negative things: 1. Divorce makes a woman bitter. 2. It breaks her heart. 3. It makes someone lonely. 4. … Read more
The divorce process can be an overwhelming and uncertain journey. It’s a path filled with fear and trepidation, especially if you’ve never experienced it before. Without prior knowledge or guidance, it’s easy to feel lost and unsure about the direction you should take. One aspect that is crucial to understand in a divorce is financial … Read more
I’d walk around on the verge of tears all day long, every day. I felt really scared. I felt sad. I felt angry. I felt like a failure. I felt worried about my young children. And, I felt very very alone. I’m referring to a time in my life several years ago, when I was … Read more
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