As a newly separated or divorced person, I remember wanting to make really good new year's resolutions. Not the typical ones like these... "I'm going to lose 20 pounds." "I'm writing that book I've been talking about since 1997." "I'm going ...
Category Archives: Getting Divorced
Alone At Christmas This Year? Why You’ll Be Just Fine
Maybe you're divorced and unattached, or perhaps you are newly separated? Maybe you're still married, unhappy, and thinking about divorce. Or, maybe your spouse recently passed away. All of these are very painful situations, and all of these result i...
Advice For: “I Feel Like My Life is Falling Apart”
The pain you experience when a marriage disintegrates can be stunning. It can come after years of fighting the knowledge that your marriage is over or it can come in a flash, when a spouse tells you they are done. You feel shock. You feel grief. You...
I Can’t Get Over My Ex. Yes You Can!
For some reason, right now I know a few different people who are recently broken up and telling me "I can't get over my ex." I have certainly been there, and so has every person who has ever gone through a divorce or been through a breakup. &nbs...
Can a Therapist Be a Mediator, Too? Yes!
Can a therapist be a mediator? You bet! Being both a Licensed Clinical Therapist as well as a Certified Divorce Mediator has allowed me to understand and highlight the importance of several qualities which are necessary in both professional roles. Wh...