Category Archives: Getting Divorced

If you are going through a divorce, and someone says to you, “You’ve got to see this movie! It’s a divorce movie, about these two people who get divorced and…” you’d probably stop them right there and say, “No, thanks. Not interested.�...

I have a dear old friend who I value for her willingness to ask me hard questions and tell me the truth no matter what. Of course, I appreciate the support of all my friends, but I know I can trust this friend not to try to make me feel better, but r...

There are so many feelings that come with being newly separated and going through a divorce. These include: shock, guilt, devastation, sadness, anxiety, anger, bitterness and…one of the worst—FEAR. Fear is a very powerful emotion that can caus...

I’m a divorced dad.  This wasn’t something I ever expected or wanted, but it happened. So, I have some tips for divorced dads based on what I've learned since my divorce, several years ago. My kids mean everything to me.  I was an active and...

Arguing with the ex is a pretty common occurrence, given the fact that one main reason people get divorced is because they argue excessively. So, the interactions that were present in the marriage are usually similar in the divorce. Add resentment, h...