At the beginning of a breakup and through a divorce, it’s very hard to imagine being friends with your ex. In fact, the relationship usually gets a lot worse (which is unimaginable) when two people go from being in a bad marriage and living togethe...
Category Archives: Getting Divorced
A Question That Baffles Me When A Spouse Leaves The Marital Home
Every divorce situation is unique. From growing apart to cheating to addiction to finances to falling in love with someone else to when a spouse leaves the marital home, there are countless reasons couples split up. What is usually the same in every ...
How Do You Get Over an Ex You Still Love?
There's no question that all breakups are painful, and awful and difficult. But after the initial devastation, anger, sadness and grieving, you can hopefully move on. Sadly, though, sometimes people just can't. They get stuck in the sadness and regre...
College Planning During Divorce and “Finding” Money
Many of the parents we work with have no structured college savings plans set up for their children. After a divorce, the chances of setting up a 529 plan is even less likely because when people divorce, there are so many complex issues to discuss an...
When the Kids are With the Ex and You’re Home Alone
If someone asked me what the hardest part of divorce is I'd say it's right after the ex moves out and the children are with him and you're sitting there home alone, by yourself, wondering how the heck you got to this point. I would go to bed and wake...