What the heck? He asked you not to show up on Tinder because it was ‘just too painful’ for him. Now you see an announcement on FB that he is IN a relationship. And the woman he’s with has updated her status to ‘in a relationship’ with a dif...
Category Archives: Getting Divorced
Divorced Mom Goes From Small Apartment To Beautiful Condo! Why Is She So Sad?
I'm a divorced mom who has been divorced almost 2 years. My two young daughters and I moved into a small 2 bedroom apartment shortly after the divorce and have been living there for a couple years. Yesterday I put in a bid on a condo. I should feel p...
How Do You Handle Going To Work Every Day When Your Heart is Breaking?
A reader asked this question: How do you handle going to work every day when your heart is breaking? Here's my advice: During my divorce, I remember times that I’d stay up all night, rethinking everything that went wrong in my marriage. I rep...
My Ex Told Me No One is Ever Going To Want Me
Wondering if I will ever find anyone to love me. My Ex told me that No one is ever going to want me...plus a few other words. Reading your note ripped my heart out. The pain you feel is palpable in your words and of course you feel fear and reject...
55 Things I’ve Learned About Life and Love After Divorce
I wrote this article when I turned 55: Today I am 55 years old. Yep, double nickels. Not sure how that even happened. I feel so much younger than 55! The thing is, as I reflect on the past year, there have been wonderful, amazing days and weeks, but ...