Category Archives: Thinking About Divorce

Trying to save your marriage? I'm sure it's not an easy time. Weighing all the good things about the person versus what life might be like without them can feel scary and stressful. Deciding if you can handle the divorce process versus staying and ma...

If you are a fan of the hit Showtime series, Ray Donovan, than you'll appreciate this week's Love Essentially, published in the Chicago Tribune Pioneer press, about the Donovan's marriage, and how even through infidelity they find a way to stay toget...

Staying in Love isn't easy, especially after years and years of being together. Something Bulls rookie, Bobby Portis said in an interview was inspiring, as it made me think of something couples can do to stay in love. Here is my Love Essentially colu...

I have dated and become friends with many divorced men over the years, and I think I have a pretty good idea of some characteristics that a lot of them have.  Now, a new play is taking viewers inside the minds of divorced men. "Boys in the Bas...

Is wanting a divorce selfish and cruel? Here is an email from a reader who is being accused of being these things because she wants a divorce:  I have been married to my husband for 5 years. 3 of those years I spent deployed away from him. We met...