Category Archives: Thinking About Divorce

I have dated and become friends with many divorced men over the years, and I think I have a pretty good idea of some characteristics that a lot of them have.  Now, a new play is taking viewers inside the minds of divorced men. "Boys in the Bas...

Is wanting a divorce selfish and cruel? Here is an email from a reader who is being accused of being these things because she wants a divorce:  I have been married to my husband for 5 years. 3 of those years I spent deployed away from him. We met...

I have been married one year, together eight. We have a child and a business together. Families are completely intertwined. I’m having an affair with a coworker who makes me actually think true love exists. We seem to completely get each other in e...

This is an article I wrote that was published in Huffington Post yesterday. It addresses the reason "Why women cheat on their husbands." The Real Reasons Women Cheat  by Jackie Pilossoph I'll never forget the day I had lunch with a friend of m...

Wait till you read this email from a woman thinking about separating. Together for 11 years, married for 10, 6 year old child. My husband’s excuse for not being a good husband or partner is that his father didn’t treat his mom nice. And nobody...