Category Archives: Thinking About Divorce

I have been married one year, together eight. We have a child and a business together. Families are completely intertwined. I’m having an affair with a coworker who makes me actually think true love exists. We seem to completely get each other in e...

This is an article I wrote that was published in Huffington Post yesterday. It addresses the reason "Why women cheat on their husbands." The Real Reasons Women Cheat  by Jackie Pilossoph I'll never forget the day I had lunch with a friend of m...

Wait till you read this email from a woman thinking about separating. Together for 11 years, married for 10, 6 year old child. My husband’s excuse for not being a good husband or partner is that his father didn’t treat his mom nice. And nobody...

A cheating spouse is something that is devastating to a marriage, and it changes everything. But while many people assume cheating automatically means you are headed to divorce court, my "Love Essentially" column (published today in Chicago Tribune...

From a reader: I have been married 10 years and I want a divorce. I love my husband so much it hurts to have to tell him I am leaving. We have been fighting for 4 years now, since my dad died, and even more so for the last year, since my mom died. Ma...