stopping a bad habit

7 Steps In Stopping a Bad Habit

We all have bad habits. Some are so ingrained in our daily routine that we barely notice them. These habits may seem harmless, but they can hurt our lives in the long run. Examples of bad habits are procrastination, nail-biting, overeating, smoking, etc. Going through a divorce might be the right time to take action … Read more

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Practicing Mindfulness and Meditation During Divorce

 Divorce is often identified as the second most stressful life event we may experience, the first being death of a loved one. At a minimum divorce is challenging and stressful and often, it can be a devastating nightmare. Divorce is a time of loss, transition and often includes difficult feelings such as anger, worry and … Read more

unwanted anger

How Much Unwanted Anger Do You Have?

How Much Unwanted Anger Do You Have? There is a lot of anger in the world today. There can be lots of anger in our own lives as well.  Some of this anger may be useful at times.  Most often, however, anger can be very destructive.   Definitions of anger and unwanted anger   Let’s … Read more

Why Italy is the Perfect Way to Supplement Therapy Post Divorce

Getting divorced is traumatic, which is why therapy is so common during this time. But I want to share a perfect way to supplement therapy, (if you are in therapy) and it’s one word: Italy.   The women I meet who have been through a divorce all want similar things:         To … Read more

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Happy Birthday to My Dad in Heaven

When it comes to parents, I hit the lottery. Although no childhood is perfect, I had the gift of both a mom and a dad who were loving, caring and supportive. My dad, Zack Pilossoph, who passed away 7 years ago today, was an amazing person in business, in our community, to his friends, and … Read more

benefits of lipstick

The Benefits of Lipstick and My Lipstick Experiment

What are the benefits of lipstick? The idea for this article began when I was buying a pair of earrings in Bloomingdales. The cheerful woman who rang me up looked absolutely beautiful. Not fake, made up, skinny model beautiful, but cheerful, happy, healthy pretty. She had these bright pink lips that lit up her face … Read more

How to Love Your Body as a Woman: Three Words

I often wonder why women are so hard on themselves when it comes to their bodies. We look in the mirror and instead of focusing on what looks good, we nitpick and immediately go to what we don’t like; a wrinkle, a muffin-top, our nose, stretchmarks, vericose veins… I could go on and on. I … Read more

self-love during the holidays

The Importance Of Self-Love During the Holidays

This is right around the time of year when the holiday shopping list starts becoming a priority. Pondering what to buy for teachers, the kids, your in-laws, your spouse and even your great aunt can leave you feeling stressed and overwhelmed, both financially and emotionally.But there’s something I want to address.: self-love during the holidays. … Read more

20 benefits of yoga

20 Benefits of Yoga During Divorce

Everyone going through a divorce should be required by law to do yoga. I’m serious about this. Divorce and yoga go perfectly together. I can say firsthand how much yoga helped me during my divorce. So, I’d like to offer 20 benefits of yoga during divorce. The first yoga class I ever did was several … Read more

A Guide to Facial Procedures and Plastic Surgery After Divorce

There are many emotions associated with divorce, some of which include insecurity, a lack of self-confidence, and feeling lost—like you just don’t know who you are and who you want to be moving forward. These feelings lead many people to consider facial procedures and plastic surgery after divorce.   Why? A few reasons. First, sometimes … Read more

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How to Love Yourself and Be Confident in Your Body: My Story

Divorce is a time of self-reflection; an opportunity to really look at yourself from the inside out and figure out what you want your new life to look like. That can include anything you want— lifestyle changes, romance, a new career, or the way you look and feel physically. I’m not divorced, but as a … Read more