Carrie Bradshaw’s Getting Divorced?! My Review of The New HBO Series “Divorce”

A Look at The New HBO Series “Divorce,” Starring Sarah Jessica Parker by Jackie Pilossoph for ESME Is it possible to have a mentor who is a fictional character? If so, Carrie Bradshaw was mine. Happy, fun, brave, and kind, Bradshaw had a way of storytelling in the former HBO series Sex and the City … Read more

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Stop Whining And Complaining And Just Enjoy The Rain!

Life can be hard. There’s no doubt about it. Everyone has problems every single day–large and small. But too much whining and complaining can make everything worse, including your love life. That is the subject of this week’s Love Essentially column, published in the Chicago Tribune Pioneer Press.   Complaining: The Fastest Way To Ruin … Read more

What The Dallas Police Shootings Made Me Realize About Hate And Love

My Love Essentially column, on why we need to respond to the tragic Dallas police shootings not with more hate and anger, but rather with love.   Respond to Acts of Hate With Love by Jackie Pilossoph for Chicago Tribune Pioneer Press   Hopeless and depressing are two words that came to mind when I heard … Read more

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Feeling Unappreciated? Muhammad Ali Quote Might Help you!

Of all the smart and wonderfully inspiring things said by Muhammad Ali, who died  at age 74, this is one of my favorites. “Service to others is the rent you pay for your room here on earth,” said the heavyweight champion and civil rights activist who deemed himself “The Greatest.” While the quote invokes the … Read more

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Group of Divorcees Use Yoga for Healing From Divorce

Are you healing from divorce? Or trying to heal? If so, take some advice from this group of divorced men and women who are using yoga to cope and move on. There are two types of people, in my opinion: those who love yoga, and those who haven’t tried yoga. Why do I say that? … Read more

Happy Mother’s Day, You Hot Mom You!

In honor of Mother’s Day, this week’s Love Essentially column, published yesterday in Chicago Tribune Pioneer Press is about the importance of moms taking care of themselves and having a life outside of their kids.   Happy Mother’s Day To All The Hot Moms Out There by Jackie Pilossoph I grew up with one of those … Read more

Prince’s Love Life: How He Helped The Women He Loved

In this week’s Love Essentially column, published in the Chicago Tribune Pioneer Press, I wrote about Prince’s love life, particularly about how he helped the women he loved. The Things Prince Did For The Women He Loved  by Jackie Pilossoph Although I was a huge Prince fan during the 1980s, he sort of dropped off … Read more

Is Aiming for Happily Ever After Unrealistic?

Happily ever after is pretty much how every romantic comedy movie or chick lit novel ever made or written ends. This includes the 2001 Jennifer Lopez and Matthew McConaughey movie, “The Wedding Planner,” which happened to be playing last weekend at the nail salon where I go.   He’s engaged and she’s got a guy … Read more

The Bachelor: I’ve Got Issues

If you happened to see last week’s episode of The Bachelor, read my Love Essentially column below, published yesterday in Chicago Tribune Pioneer Press editions. See if you agree with my issues!   Is It Possible To Love Two People At Once?  by Jackie Pilossoph Is it really possible to be in love with two … Read more

The Affair Paints Realistic Picture of Divorce

I have to admit I wasn’t a huge fan of season one of Showtime’s The Affair. While I loved the concept—a happy family man and father of four falls for a younger, sexy and married woman, has an affair with her and blows up his marriage, I found the two main characters to be unlikeable … Read more

Holistic Ways to Boost Low Sex Drive

Have you heard about the newly FDA approved pill to boost low sex drive? It’s called ADDYI. It’s too soon to tell if it’s going to turn into Viagra for women, but if pills aren’t for you, read my Love Essentially column, published two days ago in Chicago Tribune Pioneer Press. Integrative Neurologist, Dr. Trupti … Read more

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Women Over 50: You Mean I’m One of Them?! Here’s What I’m Thinking…

This is an article I wrote when I turned 50. I wanted to share my thoughts to other women over 50. It was originally published in the Chicago Tribune and it was in my top ten articles of most views.  Here are 50 things I’m thinking as I turn 50. Enjoy!   1. Why couldn’t … Read more