the L word

Have You Said The L Word Lately?

Almost every person I’ve ever talked to who is newly divorced says one or more of these things in reference to dating after divorce: “I will never get married again,” or “I’m done saying the L word, it’s just not in the cards for me,” or “I am never going to meet someone, ever again” … Read more

new relationship

Don’t Ask These Questions In A New Relationship

Picture this. You’re lying in bed with the man you’ve fallen madly in love with. It’s only been a few months, (still a new relationship) but you are SURE he’s the one. He just kissed you and you feel happier and more loved and content than you’ve ever felt in your life. Finally! You’re done … Read more

why do I attract losers

Why Do I Attract Losers? 3 Reasons And How To Stop

“Why do I attract losers?” I woman I know recently asked me through tears. Here’s her story. She has been divorced for almost 10 years. She was dating a man for 3 years, and thought everything was perfect until she found out he cheated with multiple women. She’s heartbroken. Was she just unlucky? Did this … Read more

fighting with your boyfriend

Fighting with Your Boyfriend? Fight Fair!

I think it’s pretty safe to say that one of the reasons people get divorced is because they fight or argue a lot with their spouse. What starts out as bickering can turn into shouting, insults, name calling, and cruel remarks, which can turn into pouting, or days on end of not speaking to each … Read more

where to go on a first date

Where To Go On A First Date? Coffee House Or Bar?

The good news: you met someone and your first date is set. But deciding where to go on a first date could present some stress. What are some good options? Do you meet at Starbucks and keep things sober? Will he pick you up and take you to a romantic dinner? I once had a … Read more

should I break up with my boyfriend

Should I Break Up With My Boyfriend? We Have Advice

Are you wondering and asking your friends, “Should I break up with my boyfriend?” If you are even asking, the answer is probably yes. But you already knew that. Otherwise, you wouldn’t be seeking advice. Still, I’d love to help you figure it out. Should I break up with my boyfriend? Let’s start by recognizing … Read more