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When the Kids are With the Ex and You’re Home Alone

If someone asked me what the hardest part of divorce is I’d say it’s right after the ex moves out and the children are with him and you’re sitting there home alone, by yourself, wondering how the heck you got to this point. I would go to bed and wake up in an eerily quiet … Read more

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3 Words That Can Help You Build Your Post-Divorce Life

You’ve survived the sleepless nights, the endless decisions, and the emotional rollercoaster. You’ve done the hard part. Now let’s talk about what comes next: your post-divorce life. Have you noticed how loud your inner critic can get whenever you think about moving forward or you try to open the door to a future full of … Read more

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Am I Entitled to Spousal Support? We Have Answers

“Am I entitled to spousal support?” It’s a question we get asked so often by newly separated people. Also known as alimony and spousal maintenance, (which is the term generally used in Texas courts), spousal support is money paid by one spouse to the other, usually on a monthly basis, after separation or divorce. Spousal … Read more

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Why Do Bad Things Happen To Me? A Heartfelt Conversation with a Friend

“I’m such a good person. Why do bad things happen to me?” asked my friend. Even though we were on the phone, I could feel the tears welling in her eyes. She went on, “Don’t answer the question right now, just think about it.” So, I decided to answer her question in this article, and … Read more

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When Is It Time For a Divorce? What You Need To Know Before You Decide

Divorce is one of the most significant decisions you will ever make. It’s not just a legal process—it’s an emotional, financial, and psychological shift that will shape your future in profound ways. You might be wondering: when is it time for a divorce? This isn’t the easiest question to answer. You may feel overwhelmed, conflicted, … Read more

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How Do You Get Over an Ex You Still Love?

There’s no question that all breakups are painful, and awful and difficult. But after the initial devastation, and feelings that can include anger, sadness, and grieving, you can hopefully move on. Sadly, though, sometimes people just can’t. They get stuck in anger, regret, and let’s face it-the past. They want to get over it, but … Read more

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Google Trends for Divorce Topics: What People Search

Divorce is a journey that most people face with the craving of knowledge and information. What we want to know could be about the divorce process, co-parenting, divorce laws, financial issues, dating after divorce, keeping the house, and more. The desire for information often leads people to Google searches. But what are the google trends … Read more

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Want a Harmonious Relationship With Your Ex? This is Key.

A harmonious relationship is characterized by friendliness and peaceful interactions. That might seem ironic if you are aiming for a harmonious relationship with your ex. But a harmonious relationship also includes shared goals and mutual respect, and that is certainly something to which every divorced couple should aspire. Navigating separation or divorce is challenging, and … Read more

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Waiting For An Apology From Your Ex? Stop.

An email I received from a divorced woman who is waiting for an apology that in my opinion will never come. I am struggling with this today. I have apologized and OWNED my part in the destruction of our marriage. But I realized something … I am still waiting for an apology from him for … Read more

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Divorce and Kids: 10 Things They Might Be Thinking

Going through a divorce is a painful, stressful and scary time. But it’s not just parents who feel those difficult emotions. Kids are affected, too. When it comes to divorce and kids, people often say, “Kids are resilient,” and while there is truth to that statement, that doesn’t mean kids don’t need help and support … Read more

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The Importance of Including College in Your Divorce Agreement

Divorce is never easy. It’s a time filled with so many emotions—grief, stress, uncertainty. And for parents with college-bound children, it can feel like yet another overwhelming layer on top of an already difficult process. While you’re navigating the negotiations of child support, alimony, and dividing assets, one aspect that can sometimes slip through the … Read more

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Life After Divorce for a Woman Can be Wonderful

Life after divorce for a woman might seem really scary. The lifestyle changes of divorce can feel brutal. Financial adjustments, living alone, dating… some of these can actually feel like a nightmare. But despite that change is really scary, there is a lot of good that comes with change. Most people don’t see it that … Read more