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10 Tips to Transform Your Life From Fine to Fabulous

Why Settle for FINE When You Can Have FABULOUS? Going from fine to fabulous isn’t as hard as you think. In this article, I am going to offer 10 tips that will transform your life. How many times a day do we respond with “I’m fine” when asked how we’re doing? Has life become so … Read more

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How Long Does Child Support Last? Unfortunately, Not Long Enough

When I was first getting divorced, one of the first questions I asked my attorney was, “How long does child support last?” In the state of Illinois, it lasts until the child is 18, or when he/she graduates from high school. At the time, my kids were 3 and 5 so that seemed like a … Read more

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How and When to Tell the Kids about the Divorce

How and when do you tell the kids about the divorce? This might be one of the hardest things a parent will ever have to do for many reasons: When you have children you commit to always being there for them. There is guilt knowing your divorce will impact your children emotionally. You will be … Read more

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5 Steps to Building Resilience During Divorce

Divorce is one of the most challenging life transitions, and it can be debilitating on so many levels. The emotional and financial turmoil is often overwhelming, leaving many women feeling lost and vulnerable. But in the middle of all this chaos, building resilience can be your anchor, helping you navigate this time with strength, clarity, … Read more

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What Father’s Day Means To An Ex-Wife

When I think of Father’s Day, I think of my dad and always will. But there is another father who is significant on Father’s Day: my ex-husband. Why is he important? Because he is my children’s father. So, regardless of personal feelings, resentment, anger, or frustration that he might bring me, at times, the fact … Read more

Getting Divorced Because of Substance Abuse?

Are you getting divorced because of substance abuse? If alcoholism or addiction has been a major factor in the breakdown of you marriage, you may be left wondering how the court will weigh these issues in your divorce case. First and foremost, it is important to speak to an attorney as soon as possible if … Read more

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Being Friends With Your Ex: Is It Possible And How Do You Get There?

Most people I know who are first getting divorced can’t stand their ex-husbands and/or ex-wives. They either have this deep hatred for the person, or they roll their eyes at the mention of his or her name, or they just feel pity for the person. It makes sense if you think about it because at … Read more

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What are Marital Assets and Non-Marital Assets in a Divorce?

One of the hotly contested issues in a divorce is the division of property. What are marital assets and non-marital assets and how do you figure out who gets what in the divorce? The division of property in a divorce can includes items such as: financial accounts, investments, real estate, cryptocurrency, jewelry, and collectibles, vehicles, … Read more

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Turning Anger and Resentment into Peace and Excitement

Amidst the fear, anger, resentment, anxiety and sadness of divorce, there’s something good. Know what that is? Excitement. The excitement lies not in the past chapters of your life that have already happened, but in the ones to come. And I think that no matter how much pain you are in during and after divorce, … Read more

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Mediation for Divorcing Couples with Children: Secret Advantages

In the realm of divorce, where tensions often run high and conflicts seem insurmountable, mediation for divorcing couples with children emerges as a lesser-known yet highly effective approach. Here are some lesser-known secrets about mediation for divorcing couples that divorce experts and litigation attorneys may not readily share: 1. Mediation has Predictable Costs And is … Read more

the emotional stages of divorce

The Emotional Stages of Divorce Are Like A Roller Coaster Ride

 When I was going through my divorce, everyone said “This must be such a sad time for you.” But actually, even more than sadness, what I remember about that time several summers ago was that it felt like a roller coaster of highs and lows. I’m talking about the emotional stages of divorce. One minute … Read more

Illlinois Divorce Laws

Five Illinois Divorce Laws to Consider in Your Divorce

The process of getting married can be relatively easy, no matter where you live. However, the divorce process can be tough in any state!  Most divorces come with emotional, financial, and practical stressors. With the help of your divorce attorney, arming yourself with knowledge is key to confidence and peace of mind as you go … Read more