Divorce has become an increasingly common solution to marital problems today. While there are certainly situations where divorce may be the best option for all parties involved, there are bad reasons to get divorced. That’s why it’s essential to consider the potential consequences and alternatives before making such a life-altering decision. Although our Family Law … Read more
Anxiety and divorce go together. In fact, I think anxiety and fear are two of the most prevalent emotions in divorce, and they last the longest. If you think about it, it makes sense. Between worrying about children, finances, living alone, the divorce process itself (litigation or mediation), maintaining a relationship with your ex, and … Read more
As a divorce coach, I have the opportunity to walk with my clients through their divorce process. While all divorces start and end at the same points, the route between the decision to end the marriage and the finalization of the divorce is unique to each couple. Ever heard of the ripple effect? The ripple … Read more
There are many things that need to happen to make a relationship healthy and happy. Among these things is honesty from both partners. The benefits of honesty in a relationship cannot be expressed enough, especially when it comes to relationships after divorce. Without it, no other elements in the relationship can truly work. Think about … Read more
GHOSTING. If you’re online dating, you’ve heard of — and shuddered at — that term. And if you’ve online dated for longer than a couple of months, you’ve inevitably experienced it, too. It’s easy to feel depressed after being ghosted. Maybe you feel sad that someone would do something so mean. Maybe the ghosting is … Read more
Getting divorced is traumatic, which is why therapy is so common during this time. But I want to share a perfect way to supplement therapy, (if you are in therapy) and it’s one word: Italy. The women I meet who have been through a divorce all want similar things: To … Read more
When it comes to parents, I hit the lottery. Although no childhood is perfect, I had the gift of both a mom and a dad who were loving, caring and supportive. My dad, Zack Pilossoph, who passed away 7 years ago today, was an amazing person in business, in our community, to his friends, and … Read more
There are almost always mistakes made, in either or both, the drafting and/or the execution of the separation agreement when it comes to complying with mortgage guidelines. This can impact your the mortgage qualification process. I would step out on a limb and say that this happens in well over half of the divorces finalized. … Read more
What are the benefits of lipstick? The idea for this article began when I was buying a pair of earrings in Bloomingdales. The cheerful woman who rang me up looked absolutely beautiful. She didn’t look fake, she wasn’t skinny, and she didn’t look like one of those bone-thin models. Her appeal was that she glowed. … Read more
Divorce is one of the most difficult times in a person’s life. I know finding things to be thankful for is probably the last thing you feel like doing but take it from me: Practicing gratitude is one of the most effective coping strategies you can develop– it’s free, takes little time, and can make … Read more
Life is about choices. We’ve all heard that phrase. Do you ever look back and reflect on the tiny choices that ended up being life altering? I did. Nineteen sixty-nine – 2024, this is a math equation that represents 55 years of my life. I am sitting in front of a fire on a … Read more
There are a few different instances that happened during the time I was newly separated that caused me to classify myself as temporarily psychotic, one of those being when I figured out my ex was dating my friend. I have since come to realize that “My ex is dating my friend” is not so uncommon. … Read more
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