being alone after divorce

Being Alone After Divorce: Why it’s okay and Tips on How to Enjoy it

There’s a reason so many people jump into serious relationships or get married quickly after a divorce. Hearing about people who announce their engagement just weeks after their divorce was final, I always think,  ‘What’s the rush? Didn’t you just get out of a toxic marriage? Aren’t you still healing? Aren’t your children still healing??’  … Read more

I miss my ex so much

I Miss My Ex So Much! 9 Things You Can Do

You know the divorce makes sense. Things haven’t been right for a long time. Maybe he hurt you. Maybe he’s not a good person. Everything in your core is telling you being apart is the best thing. Yet, still, there’s a little part of you from time to time who thinks, ‘I miss my ex … Read more

best divorce advice

Who Gives The Best Divorce Advice And Who You Should Ignore

Tell someone you are divorced (or getting divorced) and you are sure to get an earful, most times without even asking! “I had a feeling…” “Men are such jerks!” “I never liked him anyhow” “Oh, I’m so sorry, was he cheating?” and my favorite, (and this is usually accompanied by the person putting his or … Read more

Ever feel Like the Underdog in Dating?

Are you an underdog when it comes to dating and relationships? In this week’s Love Essentially, I explain what exactly it means to feel like an underdog in love and relationships, and I offer dating advice for underdogs who want to be smart, and find and sustain healthy romantic relationships.   Are you the UMBC … Read more

Just released today: Divorced Girl Smiling, the Novel

I am proud to announce the release of my new divorce novel, DIVORCED GIRL SMILING, now available in paperback and Kindle on amazon.com! Much like this blog, DIVORCED GIRL SMILING is funny, entertaining, heartfelt and inspirational. It’s a root for the divorced girl while getting lots of laughs kind of book (and don’t be surprised if … Read more

Free Gift With Purchase-A Romantic Comedy Novel about Divorce!

If you are enjoying the blog posts on Divorced Girl Smiling, check out my romantic comedy novel about divorce, Free Gift With Purchase! It’s the story of two sisters who lean on each other when both find themselves single again in their 40’s. There are so many hilarious and heartfelt stories and moments in Free … Read more