my husband is not affectionate or romantic

My Husband Is Not Affectionate Or Romantic And I Might Want A Divorce

DGS gets a lot of emails from readers who tell us “My husband is not affectionate or romantic.” While that is a problem, is it enough of an issue to warrant divorce? Here’s the story of one reader who’s wondering about this:   I have been married for 12 years and all these years I … Read more

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Second Guessing Divorce? We Have Some Advice

Second guessing divorce is probably pretty common. But, there’s a difference between having doubts and thinking you might have made a mistake. A DGS reader asks these questions: Does anyone else question their decision to divorce? In other words, I’ve sort of been thinking lately, ‘Was my marriage that bad?’ Is this normal? I’m really … Read more

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Betrayal And Disgust: The Ex Is Dating A Woman 15 Years Younger

I’m having a hard time coming to terms with the fact that my husband is dating a woman 15 years younger (my kids told me about her) after 11 years of marriage and just a few months of separation. He’s 41 with 2 young kids  — it just feels so icky and like a punch … Read more