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Divorce Advice: Here’s What Happens When You Move On Too Fast

  This reader is seeking divorce advice: I have been divorced for two years (no kids), and I have since gotten remarried to an amazing lady and we have a child together.  You would think all of the emotion would be gone regarding my first marriage, right?  WRONG.   He goes on to say that … Read more

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How Do You Move On After Divorce As A Man? Admit, Accept and Appreciate

From a divorced guy: I just don’t know anymore.  Everything I had worked to build for over twenty years–retirements, my house, everything, she took it all.  Three years later, I am struggling and she is doing great.  Everyone tells me to move on.  I just don’t know how to move on after divorce as a man.   … Read more

A Huge Factor in Moving On After Divorce

When two people get divorced, both hopefully spend some time reflecting on the mistakes they made, which I believe is really healthy in the healing process, and crucial in moving on after divorce.  I’ll even go so far as to say that people who don’t acknowledge and don’t accept responsibility for their mistakes can’t heal. … Read more

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A Son Seeks Advice For His Mom in Dealing with Divorce

I received a sweet, endearing email from a 24 year-old worried about his mom and seeking advice in helping her in dealing with divorce and being  happy again. Hi Ms. Pilossoph, My mom is the most amazing person, but she is still having a hard time dealing with divorce over 5 years later. I can’t … Read more