thinking of separating

Advice For Woman Thinking Of Separating: One Thing She Really Needs

I am going to give some really blunt but honest advice to this reader who is thinking of separating and who sent this email:   My husband and I have been married nearly 25 years. My husband said he wanted a divorce and moved out for 6 months. Then he came back and has been … Read more

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On The Brink Of Divorce? Maybe This Book Can Help!

“First Comes Us” is a new relationship self-help book by couples therapist, Anita Chlipala. I have the book and my opinion is that it great not only for couples on the brink of divorce, but for couples who need help reconnecting and opening up the lines of communication, and even happy couples who want to … Read more

The Real Reason You Are Getting Divorced

When people are thinking of separating or getting divorced, they usually have specific reasons. They can include cheating, excessive drinking, growing apart, losing the passion, fighting a lot, and many more. But as DGS contributor, Rabbi Dr. Baruch Halevi writes in his guest post, the real reason you are getting divorced boils down to one … Read more

The Affair Paints Realistic Picture of Divorce

I have to admit I wasn’t a huge fan of season one of Showtime’s The Affair. While I loved the concept—a happy family man and father of four falls for a younger, sexy and married woman, has an affair with her and blows up his marriage, I found the two main characters to be unlikeable … Read more

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Woman Thinking About Separating Joins Online Dating Site

Wait till you read this email from a woman thinking about separating. Together for 11 years, married for 10, 6 year old child. My husband’s excuse for not being a good husband or partner is that his father didn’t treat his mom nice. And nobody told him he treats me like shit. It wasn’t all … Read more

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‘My Husband Has No Interest In Me Sexually.’ Should She Get Divorced?

From a reader: I have been married 10 years and I want a divorce. I love my husband so much it hurts to have to tell him I am leaving. We have been fighting for 4 years now, since my dad died, and even more so for the last year, since my mom died. Mainly … Read more

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Man Thinking About Separation: Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Here is an email from a man thinking about separation from his wife. I truly feel for him because it really is a tormenting decision to have to make. Jackie,  I’m thinking about separation. A few months ago I found out my wife was cheating on me and now I’ve been left with the decision … Read more